How to overcome shyness and increase confidence
Millions of people all over the world struggle with and good news is that you can overcome the shyness. I know those people who generally shy by nature communicate with people specally in crowd.
Today I will share some tips with you how to overcome shyness.
1. Accept yourself:
It seems difficult and very very tough to me but trust me accepting yourself who you are is first step the overcome to shyness.
Let me explain I was on school I was very shy mid boy by nature but it took many many years actually become open and confident by my shy nature.
In this world no body is perfect, accept yourself be who you are that will make you appear confident. Appearing confident you will feel confident and slowly slowly you will be able to over come shy nature. Just remember no matter who you are, you feel you are amazing and make confident.
2. Find your front row:
Who is your front row? Let me explain: imagine some is performing on the stage singing, acting or dancing. You can like your front row audience, naturally you like some one who loved the most and support you unconditionally which means your loving family and friends. They are the front row in your life.
So, you need to start focusing on these relatives first of your shy nature. Try to talk to them more try to open up with them more as you continue do this, you slowly slowly come out of your safe zone and will be confident yourself.
That can you very fast keep your shy mature behind.
3. Stop comparison to anyone:
Another effective way overcome shyness to stop comparison with anyone.
Let me know we have lot of people all over the world you have to stop compare to anyone you will be feel happy and respect you more.
So loving yourself, respect yourself and realize really you are unique.
4. Get out of your shell:
Another effective way to overcome shy nature get out of your shell. A shy person always cover and try to in comfort zone but you really need to break out the shell and try to overcome shy nature.
For example as a shy person generally may not go to certain places where as public gathering lot of people, marriag party and new year party. But slowly slowly come out your shell and need to start attend party otherwise you may not over by shy nature.
Normally a party coming up but you skip the party.
Please take a small baby step and start attending a small perty, start conversation with the people. Few time back you will be a very confident and overcome by shy nature.
5. Do not give up:
In stating point you will really fill worried, timid and try to hide a corner. But my promise is that you try to start conversation with family member, friend and known people. Understand some people treat badly but whole world is not bad.
Make sure that you do not lose hope and do not give up, continue to make effort and you should be able to overcome shyness.
Slowly, gradually, steadily start concertation after some time shyness will be behind of you.
6. Make a list:
What list am I talking about? You need to note all the activities and task. you feel worried, scared, uncomfortable, shy etc. Make a list such thing such tasks and commit to that.
You need to complete every task on this list with sincerity and without any cheating. Then one fIne day you will snap out the shy nature.
Before I living one thing I will tell you "just remove the rapping paper of your shyness and get your true personality"
Let me explain I was on school I was very shy mid boy by nature but it took many many years actually become open and confident by my shy nature.
In this world no body is perfect, accept yourself be who you are that will make you appear confident. Appearing confident you will feel confident and slowly slowly you will be able to over come shy nature. Just remember no matter who you are, you feel you are amazing and make confident.
2. Find your front row:
Who is your front row? Let me explain: imagine some is performing on the stage singing, acting or dancing. You can like your front row audience, naturally you like some one who loved the most and support you unconditionally which means your loving family and friends. They are the front row in your life.
So, you need to start focusing on these relatives first of your shy nature. Try to talk to them more try to open up with them more as you continue do this, you slowly slowly come out of your safe zone and will be confident yourself.
That can you very fast keep your shy mature behind.
3. Stop comparison to anyone:
Another effective way overcome shyness to stop comparison with anyone.
Let me know we have lot of people all over the world you have to stop compare to anyone you will be feel happy and respect you more.
So loving yourself, respect yourself and realize really you are unique.
4. Get out of your shell:
Another effective way to overcome shy nature get out of your shell. A shy person always cover and try to in comfort zone but you really need to break out the shell and try to overcome shy nature.
For example as a shy person generally may not go to certain places where as public gathering lot of people, marriag party and new year party. But slowly slowly come out your shell and need to start attend party otherwise you may not over by shy nature.
Normally a party coming up but you skip the party.
Please take a small baby step and start attending a small perty, start conversation with the people. Few time back you will be a very confident and overcome by shy nature.
5. Do not give up:
In stating point you will really fill worried, timid and try to hide a corner. But my promise is that you try to start conversation with family member, friend and known people. Understand some people treat badly but whole world is not bad.
Make sure that you do not lose hope and do not give up, continue to make effort and you should be able to overcome shyness.
Slowly, gradually, steadily start concertation after some time shyness will be behind of you.
6. Make a list:
What list am I talking about? You need to note all the activities and task. you feel worried, scared, uncomfortable, shy etc. Make a list such thing such tasks and commit to that.
You need to complete every task on this list with sincerity and without any cheating. Then one fIne day you will snap out the shy nature.
Before I living one thing I will tell you "just remove the rapping paper of your shyness and get your true personality"
